• BDSM

    Male Chastity

    I’ve been a fan of chastity for about 12 years now and was first introduced to it by my first sub. And I absolutely loved being a key holder straight away. For those who are new to this particular kink you may well be wondering what you can get out of your partner, or even yourself being locked up and unable to either masturbate or have sex. So what can you get out of being on either side of that padlock? That’s what I’ll be talking about today, as well as my recommendation of cage. As a key holder it is a wonderful way to exert your control and rules…

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    Kink of the Week – Knickers

    I like clothing restrictions with my subs, and knickers are a great start if you’re exploring this as they are pretty much the most subtle. No one knows what you’re wearing under your trousers, skirt or dress and it becomes a deliciously dirty little secret. There are very few more personal or private ways to exert your control on a sub than with their underwear. The one part of clothing that’s constantly against their genitals. I like my male subs in knickers, it keeps them remembering who is in charge and can be wonderfully humiliating and I don’t even have to be in the room. A sub can find himself…

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    Approaching a Domme

    I’ve been approached by many subs over the years, but often they have never passed the first hurdle and today I’m going to share why and how best to approach a Domme. Now of course all Dommes are different but these will be a good starting point as a rule of thumb. First of all, manners. I have no interest in corrisponding with anyone who leaves a comment under any of my social media that tells me to “check DMs” I do not take orders, I give them, it is the rudest way I can think of to approach anyone and you will be ignored. I have no time for…

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    Introducing BDSM into a Relationship

    Whether you are introducing it into a relationship entirely or just a new kink you want to explore it can feel a little intimidating to have the conversation. But what’s the harm in talking about it? There’s very little to lose and so much to gain. And we’ve all had to do it at some point, so here are a few tips to help make that conversation a little easier. Don’t rush the talk, it will take as long as it takes and should be relaxed. If it isn’t it can feel a little pressuring or intimidating which isn’t going to get you anywhere. Talk over a coffee or something…

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    A Guide to Anal Sex

    Anal is one of my favourite things to do, I enjoy receiving as well as giving. But sadly many people don’t have a great first experience, which puts some off for life. So today I’m going to share some advice from my years of experience. Anal sex can be a lot of fun and a very intimate experience, particularly I feel when pegging your partner. It can give them a sensation that they may not have experienced before and is still seen as a very taboo thing for men. I say it’s time to break that taboo and start enjoying it. After all, that’s where the mans g-spot is. Lube…