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    Dildos – a Rant

    I love sex toys, hardly surprising as a kinky woman. But I have one major problem, almost everywhere I have looked have had either realistic shaped or completely smooth. With one exception, glass. I have glass toys, and while they are beautiful they just aren’t my idea of a good time. Which is a shame because they are absolutely stunning as pieces of sexual art. Of course a big part of this is down to the fact that this is clearly down to what sells, and realistic is in vogue right now. But I have a realistic cock attached to my partner that I love, what I want is ridges,…

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    Planning a Scene

    I’d like to start with a very rare apology, I’ve been too ill to do anything lately, including sit at my computer. With that said, let’s talk about planning a scene. Valentines Day is almost upon us and maybe you want to have some play time with your partner. If you don’t get as much time as you’d like for regular scenes then planning ahead can be great because you both know what you want to get out of it and you’ll actually get it. But there’s always a risk of over planning, so here’s my tips to get the most out of your play time. I do recommend planning…