• BDSM

    Porn vs. Fantasy

    It used to be if I was horny I watched porn and had a wank. But lately I’ve just been letting my mind wonder and enjoying fantasies instead. And I think my orgasms have been all the better for it. I’m no longer either trying to find porn to buy that suits my kinky needs or trailing through the verified accounts of sites like Porn Hub. Don’t get me wrong, I still love porn, and you should absolutely be paying for it because those performers deserve your money. And I will be selling it myself as of 2020. But have we become too reliant on it to get our rocks…

  • BDSM

    Exhibitionism

    I’m a total exhibitionist, not really surprising given my blog, Twitter and being an ex fetish model. I love being the centre of attention and putting on a good show when I can. From my history in couples rooms or using kit at a fetish club, I just like to make a scene and make it worth watching. But why? It’s just such a part of me I don’t even really see it as a fetish or a kink at this point, it’s just a part of who I am. I love the attention and making people happy. Sometimes it gets me off and other times I just get a…

  • Memes

    Kink of the Week – Humiliation

    I was so happy when I checked out Kink of the Week and there it was, one of my absolute favourite things. Humiliation! It’s the one kink where I feel I really get to give my creative brain a work out because everyone is different in what they find humiliating. But it is also a total minefield of things that can go wrong. Push someone too hard or push the wrong button and you can kill the mood, scene and maybe even end up in a big row. It requires an intimate knowledge of your partner and what really makes them squirm, nothing about humiliation is a one size fits…

  • Review

    Paloqueth Couples Vibrator Review

    Ages ago I was sent the couple vibrator by Paloqueth and with life getting in the way I didn’t get to post a review, but finally here we are with my second review of their products. Paloqueth always make beautiful toys, and this one is no exception, it’s tiny and fits neatly in the palm of my hand comes in a beautiful box which my toys from them have always been kept in. Both the toy and the remote (with a 3 meter range) are made of silicone and visually really compliment each other, and I do love a toy that looks good. It has two vibrating motors inside it,…

  • rant

    My Sexual Identity is Not a Fetish

    Pride month may be over, but it’s not over in London with Pride London is on Saturday. I won’t be going because I’m still angry at the anti trans fuckery that occurred last year. You can read about it here since I know this post may well make me mad enough without going into this matter too. I’ll also be at a leaving party for one of my favourite people, so it’s a busy Saturday for me. With that said, lets have a pride inspired chat. I’m a pansexual woman, I’ve known I’ve liked people regardless of gender since I was fairly young. And as I got older and came…