Porn vs. Fantasy

It used to be if I was horny I watched porn and had a wank. But lately I’ve just been letting my mind wonder and enjoying fantasies instead. And I think my orgasms have been all the better for it. I’m no longer either trying to find porn to buy that suits my kinky needs or trailing through the verified accounts of sites like Porn Hub.

Don’t get me wrong, I still love porn, and you should absolutely be paying for it because those performers deserve your money. And I will be selling it myself as of 2020. But have we become too reliant on it to get our rocks off?
I grew up in the age of dial up modems and if a picture seemed to take forever to load you could die of old age before a video finished buffering. So as an impatient teen it was usually online erotica or my fantasies. I used to have a great collection of dirty books that has sadly become a mere two I still have my perverted brain.
Now erotica and porn did introduce me to a whole wealth of new kinks and fetishes and I will never turn my back on either I have been having a lot of sex dreams lately and from them my fantasising has taken on a new lease of life. I didn’t realise just how much I missed it until it came back. I could just go straight into my fantasy and enjoy myself without the searching through the internet for something new. I’m in total control and I can tailor it to exactly what I need in that moment. 
So next time you have a wank or you’re allowed to orgasm maybe try something new, look at a smutty story, or even just enjoy your own fantasies. 

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