• BDSM

    Clothed Female Naked Male

    On the surface it’s a such a simple thing, remain clothed while your sub is naked. Yet it can be a strong display of power and dominance. Many people, whatever their gender feel vulnerable naked. Our clothes are like an armour, many of us put an element of our identity in them, they are something to hide behind. Take that armour away and there’s nothing to hide behind. That feeling of literal and mental exposure is a powerful tool. A sub kneeling before you naked doesn’t just make them feel exposed, it can make you feel incredibly strong and powerful. In my opinion words should be the first tool in…

  • Memes

    Kink of the Week – Rubber, PVC and Latex

    Before we start, there’s some links to stores in my post, they don’t sponsor me and don’t send me free stuff, I just love their products and wanted to share them with you, my lovely readers. Now that’s out of the way, hello from Edinburgh Fringe! It’s a new Kink of the Week so lets get stuck in and talk all about playing dress up! Anyone that knows me knows that I love dressing up, if I’m playing either in private or in a more professional capacity it’s always my first step for getting in the mood, and rubber and PVC are often staples of BDSM attire. They are fetishes…

  • Everything Else

    The Culture of Silence

    “We should forgive our enemies, but not before they are hanged.” Heinrich Heine I know what you’re thinking, “How on Earth are you going to make this about BDSM Mistress Hazard?” Well, just watch me. I am probably one of the least forgiving people on the planet, and I say this with a fair degree of confidence. I don’t hold really grudges but I have a pretty strong scorched earth policy (as my best friend has called it) when it comes to those who cross me. And on a scene that has it’s fair share of abusive Dom/mes and submissives (oh yeah, they aren’t escaping this either) I think it’s…

  • Personal

    Finding My A-Spot

    First order of business today, I’m away at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival from Thursday so while I might be active on Twitter to an extent I won’t be replying to DMs and may well be slow to respond to emails as I will be understandably very busy. I do have a few posts lined up in my drafts so the blog will be getting updated. I’m just going to come out and say it, I’m underwhelmed with the G-Spot. Sure I can squirt and yeah it feels nice when it’s stimulated but there’s plenty that feels better. And until recently I didn’t have a name for it. The A-Spot! I’ve…

  • Personal

    I’m monogamous and That’s OK

    It’s a bit of a strange thing to be into BDSM and monogamous, I’m very much in the minority and I know it. It’s not that I haven’t had a sort of go with a more open kind of relationship and I was nothing but miserable. How I conduct my relationships is not for everyone, just as how other people conduct theirs is not for me. As much as BDSM isn’t one size fits all and we tend to just let everyone get on with it as long as everyone is a consenting adult so should our relationships be. It’s not really like that though is it? I’ve had hate…

  • Memes

    Kink of the Week – Summer

    I’ve tried to write this a few times, I love writing about kink but is summer really a kink? It’s certainly got in the way of me feeling I can enjoy kinky fun. My medication means I am double the risk of heatstroke and having to be aware of that in whatever I’m doing. And if you or your submissive or Dominant are on psychotropic medication this is likely to put you at risk too. It’s just something else to think about while playing and for me it kind of kills the mood a bit. But I’m not here to lecture you on the dangers of medication and heatstroke, I…

  • BDSM

    Latex Care

    Latex is gorgeous, I’ve never met someone that didn’t look good in it. Treat it well and it’ll last you years, but it can be a pain to store and care for. If you don’t know what you’re doing that beautiful, expensive item of clothing might not last you as long as it should. I’ve got latex clothes over 10 years old that I still wear and look great in. So today I’m going to share with you my tips for caring for your clothes and toys. After a long night out (or in) you’ll finally peel it away from your body and this is when it needs to be…