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    PTSD and Sex

    I debated posting about this for a while, but I figure I should explain why my posting can be a little sparse sometimes and my Twitter can be so quiet. My brain really just isn’t up to it sometimes, and here is why. Before we get into this I’m going to talk about sexual assault. I have PTSD as a result of being raped, I was formally diagnosed three years ago. This year I was put on a list to have therapy for it. I used to have a high sex drive that has more or less vanished, it comes back briefly every now and again but I’m not the…

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    BDSM and Mental Healing

    BDSM is a strange thing, it’s fun, it’s sexy and some people use it for emotional healing. But the last one can come with it’s risks. Discovering my dominant side 12 years ago made a huge difference outside of my kink life. I don’t have the happiest of histories, and it left me a a mousy, quiet and unhappy person. I thought I was a submissive for a while. But it just wasn’t me. But then I gave Domming a go and I’ve never looked back. Over time I realised that I could apply parts of my kink self into my day to day life. It helped give me my…