• Monthly Round Up

    November Round Up

    November has been a lot of fun, from dungeon time to new podcasts I have tried my best to keep myself busy. Here’s the stuff I’ve really loved. The Smutlancer Podcast it was their episode on planners that gave me the idea to write my last post. Although I use a different system and for different things it was a fantastic episode. I’ve only just started listening so I have lots to catch up on at the moment. If you are a sex blogger or want to be then this podcast is just what you need. Abrasion play, it’s easily our favourite thing to do and a staple of our…

  • BDSM

    BDSM and Planners

    Could a planner help with your D/s relationship? I absolutely think so. That might seem like a strange claim but when you have a lot to remember it’s the easiest way I’ve found to keep on top of everything. My whole Domme life fits into a cute little six ring Filofax binder, as well as everything for the blog and future videos I want to create. But they can also be great for your sub or slave, Organisation Ideas For chastity if you are a key holder or locked away it is great to have a tracker of how long it has been and maybe even the date of release.…

  • Review

    Blue Door Dungeon Review

    On Sunday we booked two hours at The Blue Door Dungeon in Angel, London. It’s a short walk from the station. Arriving 15 minutes early gave us time to get ready that didn’t eat into our dungeon time we were greeted by a really lovely guy that gave me a quick tour while my partner sorted himself out and got ready. (This must be the first time a stand up character act has done a photo shoot in a BDSM dungeon.) Their ground floor has a medical room, a small bedroom and a toilet, downstairs is a lovely space to chill out with comfy sofas, with another shower and toilet…

  • Review

    5 Kinky Gift Ideas

    I am usually a bit of a Grinch, but I’m actually looking forward to Christmas this year, I’ve even started buying presents. Maybe like me you like to get your shopping out of the way early. If like me you are having a kinky Christmas with just your partner/s or kinky friends you might be looking for some gift ideas, well today I’m here to help you! I am a firm believer of supporting small businesses and every one of these independent companies have always been friendly, helpful and sell great products. Just a quick side note, these are not affiliate links, I don’t get a penny if you buy…

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    KOTW – Cum Tributes

    I wasn’t going to join in for this one, but after reading about the prompt on the site and the fantastic post by Littlegem I actually wanted to get involved. So, lets do this! I’ve only spoken to one person who was into this, and I say spoken to, they put a comment under one of my photos asking if they could do this. I didn’t really want to see one of my photos with a strangers jizz on it so I declined. I know people get off to my work (at least I hope if they don’t now they will in future) but that does not mean I want…

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    Mindfulness and BDSM

    Right, I guess I’m going to have to level with you. I hate mindfulness. And maybe hate is a strong word, but as an ex mental health patient who heard this word more times than she can count I think I’m allowed to hate it. But there is a lot of evidence that people who have BDSM in their lives are more mindful. I’ve also started writing a book on it so I thought I would do a little post on it (because I’ve wanted to write a BDSM book for years and I probably hate myself). Whatever kinky/BDSM practice you engage in can have mindfulness attached to it (but…

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    KOTW – Fisting

    I love fisting, I enjoy things taken to an extreme and what better than having your entire hand inside someone? There’s something so intimate about it to for that exact same reason. It is something I unfortunately haven’t had much opportunity to do or have done to me. But when I have had the opportunity I have enjoyed doing it although I will confess my arm did get just a little tired! But not everyone can be fisted, that much I can confirm as I have very narrow hips and a very shallow vagina making it basically impossible, but I will say I’ve always had a lot of fun trying!…

  • Work

    Upcoming Works

    As you probably know I’ll be selling clips as of February 2020 (there will be a link to my clip sites on the links page) and on the 24th I’ll be filming in a dungeon, which I’ll be reviewing after the shoot. Since I want to obviously do great work that you’ll enjoy I would love to hear from you all for the kind of things you’d like to see me doing. Please bare in mind I will only be doing solo works. As I am a switch in my private life I am open to doing sub and Domme clips. You can either leave a comment under this post,…