BDSM and Planners

Fluro pink personal Filofax

Could a planner help with your D/s relationship? I absolutely think so. That might seem like a strange claim but when you have a lot to remember it’s the easiest way I’ve found to keep on top of everything. My whole Domme life fits into a cute little six ring Filofax binder, as well as everything for the blog and future videos I want to create. But they can also be great for your sub or slave,

Organisation Ideas

  • For chastity if you are a key holder or locked away it is great to have a tracker of how long it has been and maybe even the date of release. If you are a keyholder a colour code means you can track multiple chastity subs in one place at a glance.
  • Rules it’s great for keeping track of rules at a glance, being able to look at them regularly and easily can be a wonderful way to remind a submissive who is in charge. If down the line rules are looked at again to see what is working and what isn’t.
  • Pro work if you do pro work then staying organised is so important. Notes on scenes you are planning, things you want to film, social media trackers, the list is honestly endless.
  • Fetishes and kinks sometimes when we discover something new we aren’t in a place to try it just yet, add it to a list and next time you are going to play, go through it together and you can be inspired to do something a little different.
  • Tasks this is probably more of a sub than Domme thing, but if you have regular tasks that change from day to day somewhere to write them all down and tick them off helps to not forget anything. I have had lists of task ideas when I used to do a regular free task a long time ago.

The great thing about a paper planner system is that it can be changed and edited to suit pretty much any need. While I don’t make my own inserts there are plenty of guides on how to make your own. There’s also plenty for free to download and print yourself.

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