I need to be honest, I didn’t have the highest hopes for this toy. I own a glass dildo and it’s kind of, eh. It’s a beautiful dildo don’t get me wrong, but it’s just so, well, boring really. But I was looking for something […]
Month: February 2020
30 Days of Kink – Day 13
Explain As Best As You Can What the Appeal of Kink/BDSM is to You. Why Are You Drawn To What You’re Drawn To. My kinks and fetishes are pretty broad, but they pretty much boil down to a love of pain, humiliation or control. All […]
My First Fetish
My first one was a weird one, because of course it was. It was dollification. For those who don’t know, which in my experience is just about everyone I’ve ever met, dollification is either turning someone into a doll or being transformed into one. Most […]
Beauty Is Love Body Stocking Review
I picked this up from Honour for Valentine’s Day because I was buying my partners present online and it was offered to me reduced. It was a good price and look at it, it’s lovely. It was all going so well, I got it out […]
30 Days of Kink – Day 12
Tell Us About a Humorous BDSM/Kink Experience You’ve Had I wasn’t going to tell this story, it was a very long time ago with an ex and our on/off play partner. We, well I say we, the play partner and I had a huge laugh […]
Our Orgasm Gap
It’s great that we are finally addressing the orgasm gap, that there are more studies being done and dialogue is finally opening up about it. I thought today I would talk about the orgasm gap in my relationship. One of us cannot orgasm from penetrative […]
The Dreaded Rut
We can all end up in a bit of a sexual rut every now and again. When things start to get a little samey and you need something new, but you just can’t decide what it is that you want to change. I thought today […]
30 Days of Kink – Day 10
What Are Your Hard Limits? I’ve only just realised on the day of posting I put up 11 last week instead of this one! Ooops! Outside of the usual “Big Three” (necrophilia, bestiality and paedophilia for those who didn’t know). My more personal ones are […]
My Body and Me
I’ve not always loved my body, for many years I hated it, I couldn’t find a single thing to like about it and couldn’t understand why anyone else felt differently. Oh how times have changed. My love for my body began with small steps, when […]
DM Irritants
They come in waves for me, but the past 24 hours has seen way too many idiots in my DMs. Often from people who don’t follow me, it’s that one or two word message that they expect you to reply to. There are how many […]