• Review

    Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo Review

    I need to be honest, I didn’t have the highest hopes for this toy. I own a glass dildo and it’s kind of, eh. It’s a beautiful dildo don’t get me wrong, but it’s just so, well, boring really. But I was looking for something with a nice curve and not realistic so I ordered this one. If you’ve never ordered from Lovehoney they are really quick to deliver and everything is nicely and discreetly packaged. It’s a fairly plain box with a photo of the toy on it and comes with a velvet pouch to store it in. There’s a small Lovehoney logo etched into the handle which you…

  • Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 13

    Explain As Best As You Can What the Appeal of Kink/BDSM is to You. Why Are You Drawn To What You’re Drawn To. My kinks and fetishes are pretty broad, but they pretty much boil down to a love of pain, humiliation or control. All three of them can bring my mind into a sharp focus, something I don’t get to enjoy in my day to day life. My brain is a very scatty place to live and I love that when practising BDSM or indulging in a kink everything else melts away and I can just enjoy that moment and what I’m doing. I don’t know where it comes…

  • BDSM

    My First Fetish

    My first one was a weird one, because of course it was. It was dollification. For those who don’t know, which in my experience is just about everyone I’ve ever met, dollification is either turning someone into a doll or being transformed into one. Most commonly a rubber sex doll, but there are plenty of other kinds ball-jointed, fembot, blow up etc. It all started when I got recommended a manga called Doll, it’s a series of short stories with a focus on different kinds of dolls, some of them sexual. It’s been a many years since I’ve read it but it’s something I read over and over again. I…

  • Review

    Beauty Is Love Body Stocking Review

    I picked this up from Honour for Valentine’s Day because I was buying my partners present online and it was offered to me reduced. It was a good price and look at it, it’s lovely. It was all going so well, I got it out of the box and oh my bloody bloody god, it has proper clips, not those shitty plastic one! This is a damn good start. The stocking tops are just fishnet and don’t have that lace top so those little plastic clips wouldn’t be so nightmarish to attach, but no, proper clips that don’t take an engineering degree and a ritual sacrifice to attach. Not to…

  • Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 12

    Tell Us About a Humorous BDSM/Kink Experience You’ve Had I wasn’t going to tell this story, it was a very long time ago with an ex and our on/off play partner. We, well I say we, the play partner and I had a huge laugh out of this long after it happened. We had been doing some sensation play with his arse using ice cubes and then put a small metal plug in him, which kept falling out. We told him to put it in because then maybe it would stay. And the whole thing went in. He didn’t need to tell us because the look on his face said…

  • Personal

    Our Orgasm Gap

    It’s great that we are finally addressing the orgasm gap, that there are more studies being done and dialogue is finally opening up about it. I thought today I would talk about the orgasm gap in my relationship. One of us cannot orgasm from penetrative sex, and that person is my partner. He has phimosis (tight foreskin) and because of it he loses some feeling in his penis making orgasm from sex basically impossible. It has gotten better over the past two years and it isn’t so tight he has had to have surgery. It does however still affect our sex life to a point, and that point is that…

  • BDSM

    The Dreaded Rut

    We can all end up in a bit of a sexual rut every now and again. When things start to get a little samey and you need something new, but you just can’t decide what it is that you want to change. I thought today it was time to address this, with it being Valentine’s Day and the perfect day to try and spiced things up. Write down everything that turns you on The tried and tested is a perfect place to begin, because it gets you thinking and you aren’t trying to come up with things you’ve never done before to start off with. And there is bound to…

  • Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 10

    What Are Your Hard Limits? I’ve only just realised on the day of posting I put up 11 last week instead of this one! Ooops! Outside of the usual “Big Three” (necrophilia, bestiality and paedophilia for those who didn’t know). My more personal ones are electroplay, I will literally run if I hear a violet wand. I had a bad experience with this kind of play when I was 20 and I have avoided it ever since. I will not be giving it another go and getting it over it, at least not any time soon, it’s not something my partner has any interest in so I don’t need to.…

  • Personal

    My Body and Me

    I’ve not always loved my body, for many years I hated it, I couldn’t find a single thing to like about it and couldn’t understand why anyone else felt differently. Oh how times have changed. My love for my body began with small steps, when I started my first steps into BDSM I was getting a lot of compliments, something I hadn’t had a lot of. I was used to being put down and criticised but then suddenly I was hearing lovely things from often total strangers, and I began to learn that the horrible things I’d been told about my looks weren’t true. Then I started to model, and…

  • rant

    DM Irritants

    They come in waves for me, but the past 24 hours has seen way too many idiots in my DMs. Often from people who don’t follow me, it’s that one or two word message that they expect you to reply to. There are how many words in the English Language and you really want to open up with Hey, Hey Mistress or Hey sub? And I barely fucking sub for a start! It boggles my mind that anyone would think this will warrant a reply, there is literally nothing to reply to in the first place. Back when I was single I would never reply to a single message like…