What Are Your Hard Limits?
I’ve only just realised on the day of posting I put up 11 last week instead of this one! Ooops!
Outside of the usual “Big Three” (necrophilia, bestiality and paedophilia for those who didn’t know).
My more personal ones are electroplay, I will literally run if I hear a violet wand. I had a bad experience with this kind of play when I was 20 and I have avoided it ever since. I will not be giving it another go and getting it over it, at least not any time soon, it’s not something my partner has any interest in so I don’t need to.
Next up is human ashtray stuff, it honestly makes me feel a bit like vomiting when I see it, as someone who got an accidental mouthful of ash once just no. (It wasn’t kink related, I just thought I’d put that out there.)
Cutting, I’m a recovered self harmer so I feel like this might be a very bad idea for me. I don’t want to open up any can of worms when it comes to this. Kink and BDSM should only be a positive and fun experience.
Leather fetishism, I’m going vegan so this is pretty recent. I won’t be throwing out any leather products that I currently own, however I won’t be buying any more when they eventually wear out. I actually don’t have much in the way of leather anyway.