Explain As Best As You Can What the Appeal of Kink/BDSM is to You. Why Are You Drawn To What You’re Drawn To.
My kinks and fetishes are pretty broad, but they pretty much boil down to a love of pain, humiliation or control. All three of them can bring my mind into a sharp focus, something I don’t get to enjoy in my day to day life. My brain is a very scatty place to live and I love that when practising BDSM or indulging in a kink everything else melts away and I can just enjoy that moment and what I’m doing.
I don’t know where it comes from but I’m just hardwired to enjoy BDSM and kink. I have had an interest in rope, cuffs, chains and cages since my teens. My earliest sexual fantasies involved them as well as humiliation, I have no idea what could have put these thoughts in my mind, I don’t think there is always a reason we enjoy the things we do or why we are drawn to them in the first place. I believe that some things simply are what they are.