• Personal

    When All This Is Over

    I know we’re all struggling right now, some a lot more than others so I’m doing my best to try not to dwell too much on what I don’t have and think about what I can do when it’s over. First up I’ll be getting waxed and my eyebrows threaded. I’m growing my brows back and they’re in serious need of sorting out. I am shaving at the moment but I much prefer being waxed. Next up I want my acrylics back, I hate being without them but in the meantime I’m just painting my nails and hoping my natural ones can grow nice and long. Although mine break at…

  • BDSM,  Personal

    Wax Play and Creative Inspiration

    The last time I saw my partner he suggested we do wax play, we knew it would be the last chance we got to play for a while so we did. I dripped a blue Trussed UK candle over his back (I haven’t asked permission to post the photo I took of so it’s not getting posted) while he listened to Penguin Cafe Orchestra, if you haven’t heard of them they are pretty great background music for wax play. I particularly like The Sound of Someone You Love Going Away and it Doesn’t Matter. He then dripped a purple Trussed UK candle down my back (it was a lot splashier…

  • Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 17

    What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up? We are not all damaged some way and working through issues. Yes, some of us are, but I have met plenty of people who have had happy lives that love BDSM. Now granted I can’t actually count myself in that list but I did not enter into BDSM until after I resolved my issues. Of course there are people that use BDSM and kink to work through there emotional problems, but that does not mean that all of us are like that. I have found D/s helpful in the past to get into routines and get things done…

  • Everything Else,  Personal

    Staying Sane During Corona

    I know Friday is usually my review day but with everything going on I haven’t actually written one yet. I’ve been busy foraging for food and wondering when I’m going to be able to see my partner again after tonight. As someone who has spent a lot of her life locked indoors looking for an excuse not to go out I thought I’d share some advice on how to not end up clawing the walls. Skype is your friend. If like me you don’t live with your partner video calls are a big thing, if you’ve been in a long distance relationship you’ll know how important things like this are.…

  • BDSM,  Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 16

    What Are the Most Difficult Aspects of Having a Sexuality That Involves Kink or BDSM for You Personally? The hardest thing for me in the past was meeting someone that not only matched my kinks but wanted a monogamous relationship that did not involve having children. It’s a lot harder than it sounds. The thing is we do ask for a lot when we are single and looking in general, adding BDSM/kink and we are asking for even more. Especially if you have some weirder and more niche kinks. (Yes I am making this about dollification again just because I can.) In the end I did meet that someone, and…

  • Personal

    My Sterilisation Story

    The plan was to talk about Eroticon today, but the organisers made the absolutely right call to cancel it. So I’ve decided to talk about my sterilisation instead. It’s about my genitals so it absolutely counts. I had my procedure done five years ago this summer. But I went to my doctor about it the year before. I had been on the pill for years, then I had a missed period. I had a very understandable freak out as I have no desire to have children and was very worried about having to have an abortion. I wasn’t pregnant, my missed period was down to stress. Off the back on…

  • BDSM,  Personal

    Toys I Want

    I admittedly have a pretty full toy box but is a toy box ever truly complete? Here’s what I’m currently lusting after. First up is the egg by Organotoy. They’ve got some really gorgeous stuff and I’d love to review a few of their toys but this stands out in particular as something I would love to film clips with and when I start camming play with on cam too. I also have a feeling that this would be a lot of fun to wear out on date night some time. Next is Bad Dragon’s Ika. I’ve been dying to own a Bad Dragon toy, but sadly cost has gotten…

  • Review

    Tenga Easy Beat Egg Review

    This week I’m handing the review over to my partner, thank you so much my darling. Before starting this review I should point out that I (the user) have phimosis, which is a tightened foreskin that does not easily retract over the helmet and makes ejaculation during intercourse virtually impossible. I can achieve orgasm with masturbation, had plenty of practice, and since this particular sex toy is aimed at not only males but for masturbating, I saw myself fit to review it. This review is also in request of my partner, who sourced it for me. The packaging is fine, simplistic design, suitably egg shaped, easy to open and looks…

  • BDSM,  Memes

    30 Days of Kink – Day 15

    Post A BDSM or Kink Activity You’re Curious About and Want To Try I’m interested in exploring the whole pussy stretching kink. I’ve never been fisted before and it is something I want to try. Given that you can get some nasty injuries from this and I don’t fancy a trip to A&E under any circumstances, least of all for a sex related injury, I am doing my best to do plenty of research before I do anything more than use my larger sized dildos. My Godemiche dildo that I got for Christmas requires a lot of warm up before I can use it so I have a long way…

  • rant

    Only Fans Leak Follow Up

    To follow up on the Only Fans leak I posted about last week I have messaged with Mariah Muise who uses the site about her experience with it. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions, links to her work and social media are at the bottom of the post, do give the links a click. How did you find out about the leak? So I have 2 twitter accounts a vanilla and one for SW. Strangely enough I found out about the leak on my vanilla account. YouTube personalities I follow were making fun of it. How do you feel the leak was handled? In…