Pegging

You remember yesterday when I said my mum was the inspiration for the SPH post? Well believe it or not she’s a bit of an inspiration for this one too! Take a seat, grab your drink and snack of choice, Auntie Hazard is going to give you a little insight into my weird little life.

So I was sat on the sofa at my mum’s and she came home from work, I said hello and in response I got “Do you know what pegging is?” No hello or how are you. It had somehow come up at work (how I will never know, it wasn’t that kind of business!) and it needed explaining. And that’s the story of how I came to spending an evening explaining pegging to my mum and her friends.

And now I’m going to explain it to you my beautiful readers. So, pegging is when you grab your strap on, lube it up and stick it in the arse of a consenting man. Well, see you all next week… no I’m kidding!

The biggest question I was asked about it was why? Well that depends on if you’re talking to the guy or the person with the strap on. In femdom porn it pretty much seems to be a standard. And I think I can count on one hand the number of submissive guys that haven’t been into it than have.

I adore pegging, I love having a guy bent over and fucking his arse. It’s such a powerful act of dominance and really puts you in the position of power. There’s a mix of the taboo of anal sex mixed with the taboo of penetrating a man. (I don’t get why either of these things are taboo, the world out there is weird.)

For those that don’t know the male g-spot is inside his arse. It’s his prostate and while we’re here should be checked regularly. So not even taking the D/s side of it into account for the moment (as it isn’t just a D/s thing) a guy can like it for the simple reason that it feels good. And that is really the most important thing. But we’re here for the kinky stuff and that’s what you’re getting!

To be bent over with your arse laid bare to be fucked is a pretty submissive act. Then there is the humiliation (we’ve talked about that rather a lot lately haven’t we?) it can be seen as a very humiliating thing to have your arse fucked, especially as a man. Giving up control and being fucked as opposed to be the one doing the fucking is a powerful thing emotionally too. Pegging lets you experience something you otherwise wouldn’t be able to.

If you’re going to do any anal play and you’re fairly new to it why not check out my guide to anal sex? And do you love pegging? Tell me what you love about it in the comments!

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