• Monthly Round Up

    August Round Up

    In all my naivety I thought things would be back to something more normal by now. That’s clearly a very long way off. But it’s not been a bad old month, here’s some of my highlights: Organotoy I got a lovely package from Organotoy and I’ve been loving their toys, and you can read my review of their small Ash here. I’ll be reviewing the others over in the future so do keep an eye out for those. If you want a fantasy dildo I can’t recommend them highly enough. Check them out here. Boys Own Lube If you follow me on Twitter you’ll know it’s not been all fun…

  • Everything Else

    Trying to Scratch an Itch While Ignoring Fifty Others

    It’s been a rough few weeks, which is why my posting is a little all over the place of late. I’ve been trying so hard to wank so I could review my gorgeous new ice cream dildo but I just can’t concentrate. It’s been tough to keep my sex drive up while I am not allowed to actually have sex (is social distancing ever going to end?) and it’s even tougher when you’re itchy all over. So how do you keep the spark up with yourself? I feel like I should have some magical answer to this, after all, isn’t that why you’re reading this? I guess you could be…

  • BDSM

    Build Your Own Path

    There are very few things in BDSM that only have one way of doing them, and that’s down to health and safety. Yet there are people that will say there is only “one true way” and I’ve been practising BDSM for 15 years so I can promise you, that’s bullshit. I was thinking about this a lot recently, something from my private life inspired it so I thought it was time to share it here too. I’ve heard the whole “true sub/dom” thing since I started and it’s always been from people I wish I had never had the misfortune of meeting. When that term has been used it has…

  • Review

    Bellesa Great On Paper

    Bellesa.co is a new free porn site. It’s more ethical than the mainstream ones, and by women and aimed at women. We need this. Well, actually what we need is for it to be easier to remove the revenge, underage and sexual assault stuff that’s on the much bigger sites and for the uploads to only be from verified uploaders. I had heard about Bellesa and heard its praises sung, which was a great start. And it’s nicely laid out, but most importantly it’s a free porn site that is ethical. It’s not just clips either, there’s photos and articles and you can even buy sex toys. As a site…

  • BDSM

    I Like to Show Off

    This fortnights Kink of the Week is about exhibitionism, and I love to show off. So I’m really excited about joining in with this one. I didn’t start out an exhibitionist, in fact it was only after I got over years of body shaming, slut shaming and many forms of abuse that went on for years that it slowly came out of me. And I feel like exhibitionism has been good for my mental health in many ways. It all started when I decided to do art nude fetish modelling, I became comfortable with my body and finally in my learned that I had a great body and not to…

  • Review

    Organotoy Small Ash Review

    The lovely people over at Organotoy sent me a package recently, including the small Ash dildo, and they put a bio-hazard logo on it which makes it the most special toy in my collection. And being so special to me that had to be the first thing in my collection to try first. It’s a nice squishy silicone, and I like soft feeling toys over firm ones, and their toys are beautiful as well as being high quality. It’s the smallest dildo in my collection at 4.25 inches and 3.5 insertable inches but it is nice and thick. I wouldn’t have picked this size for myself but it is nice…

  • BDSM,  Personal

    If Not You

    “I just don’t think I’m that kinky.” I used to have two deal breakers, non-monogamy and non-kinky. I thought they were the two things I absolutely had to have in my relationship. If I had heard that sentence from anyone else I would be writing about being single again. But honestly, if I can’t have a kinky relationship with my partner then I don’t want one at all. It’s no longer the deal breaker it once was. We aren’t vanilla, but it’s not a sub/Dom relationship either. We have a bit of kink in the bedroom but it isn’t a central part of us either. We have fun with spanking,…

  • Review

    G-Silicone Ambit Review

    About a month ago I was sent the Ambit by Godemiche Silicone and this week I finally got a day to enjoy it. So, what’s it like? Well, it’s pretty damn great. It’s the same high quality of the rest of their toys that myself or my partner have by them. I love that not only is the quality super high but they’re just gorgeous toys to look at. The range of colours is huge, then there’s the UV, pearlescent and effulgence and glow in the dark on top of that. I knew the style I wanted but damn picking the colour was tough. As always it turned up really…

  • Personal

    I Love to Watch

    I’ve never said it to anyone else, but I love watching my partner wanking. It’s never done anything for me before and I have no interest in watching guys wank in porn. It’s just my partner, laying back and touching himself. And I think actually enjoying it has made our sex better. The thing is, no one knows how to pleasure my partner better than him. He knows what gets him off because he’s had the practice, knows what’s going on in his head and how what is being done actually feels. With his phimosis I’ve had to re learn everything I know because he really does need to be…