• Monthly Round Up

    October Round Up

    Well, we made it through another month. If it hadn’t been for the fact I’m really looking forward to Halloween I may well have lost my marbles all together. That said, lets see what the highlights have been. Taskmaster Yeah, I know this isn’t sexy or kink but mate, I’m not even allowed to see my partner indoors so it’s going to be pretty mixed this month. It’s one of my favourite shows and it’s back, I watch it on streaming services a lot and now I’m just enjoying a brand new series. I’ve really got my fingers crossed for Richard Herring or Johnny Vegas to win. And after this…

  • BDSM

    Mad Scientists

    Carrying on spooky week I thought I would go for something we can bring to life. The mad scientist. Really Bambi? How do we do this? Well, buckle up buttercup because we’re going to talk about some erotic hypnosis fun, going forward there will be some bondage, orgasms and all the usual mad scientist horror trappings. A mad scientist can take control suddenly, or slowly without you knowing or perhaps you’re more the type to just hand it over willingly. You did totally decide to do that didn’t you, I mean, it’s not like they could have tricked you. Could they? I’m sure they didn’t. Mostly. What are they going…

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    My Favourite Monster

    It’s Halloween week! Unless you’re me, and several other goths it’s the 26th of Halloween. So of course we’re keeping it spooky all week. And today I’m sort of revisiting teratophilia, only just with a focus on the second greatest and most long running love of my life The Phantom of the Opera. Technically not a monster, in spite of being one of the Universal movie monsters. But teratophilia includes deformities. A quick bit of French literature history before we get into this. The Phantom of the Opera, based on the novel of the same name was written by Gaston Leroux and is now probably his best known work. It…

  • Review

    Witches Sluts Feminists Review

    For the last in my week of Halloween reviews it’s Witches Sluts Feminists by Kristen J. Sollee. The cover says “Conjuring the sex positive” which I thought was pretty encouraging. But what’s it like? The chapters are pretty short so it’s very easy to pick up and put down as each chapter deals with something completely different while sticking with the theme. Having said that, once I got really into it I did struggle to put it down. It’s got everything from the Salem witch trials to pop culture, the struggle of BIPOC and the LGBT+ community. It really does manage to pack a little bit of everything in. The…

  • Review

    Gems Little Pink Box Unboxing and Review

    The lovely Gem at Gems Little Pink Box was kind enough to send me her limited edition Skull Dildo for a fair review, I also did an unboxing on my shiny new YouTube channel which is below the review. As always, I’m not being paid for the video or the review and all opinions are my own. I’ve added the video below, but first, the review! As with the all of Gems toys, it’s body safe silicone it’s 19cm tall with an insertable length of about 17cm and an 18cm circumference at the widest point. This toy was a lot bigger than I had expected. This is my only heavily…

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    Pumpkin Butt Plug Gems Little Pink Box Review

    For the whole of October Gems Little Pink Box is selling a range of Halloween and spooky themed toys. So I decided to treat myself with the Pumpkin Butt Plug. I paid for this toy with my own money and this review, as like all of my others, does not contain any affiliate links. I don’t see a penny for my reviews. Now the housekeeping is out of the way, lets talk toys! I’m just going to say it, I love this little company, they started out earlier this year and I was lucky to discover them by chance as I love a UK based toy company that make body…

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    Organotoy Licorne Review

    This is the last (for now) of my Organotoy reviews, previous reviews were for the small Ash and small Egg. I was sent this toy for free but I’m not being paid for this review and all opinions are my own and there are not affiliate links. As with all of their toys it is body safe materials and comes in a plain cardboard box. It’s very squishy, it’s probably by far the softest toy I own. Mine is in black and pink to match my other toys but this one has a hint of glitter that is firmly in there which does not shed and a stripe of bright…

  • Personal

    Loving and Fearing Anal

    I really enjoy anal, the fact that I’ve had it about twice in two and a half years may not make it look like that though. The thing is, and anyone who engages in anal play will back me up on this, is that it can get unintentionally messy. Now I know you can use an anal douche but as I mentioned in my very first post they should be used very sparingly. I never really used to be that worried about it, certainly not in the past but then I was hit with this sudden fear. First of all, my partner has phimosis and that can make cleaning your…

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    Revisiting Chastity

    I wrote a post all about male chastity back when I first started the blog, looking back as much as I like it it is not trans inclusive and that is why it needs revisiting. And chastity is seen as a very cis male thing and that’s just not true. It’s time to talk about chastity beyond the binary and what better time than Locktober? Look up chastity just about anywhere and it is almost all aimed at cis men, back in the Tumblr days it was just about all I could find, even putting female chastity in it was mostly about guys in chastity. But there are plenty of…

  • Review

    Organotoy Egg Review

    A little while ago I was sent a gorgeous little set of toys from Organotoy, you can read my review of their Ash here. Today I’m reviewing their Egg in a size small, and it’s currently my only egg. The Egg, like all their toys is made of high quality, body safe silicone and I chose my favourite colours black and pink. As soon as it came out of the box I knew it was going to need a stand so it could live on my toy shelf (which still hasn’t been put up) because it really is that beautiful. It has a beautiful shine and lovely strong colours. I…