I think this year I’ll set my sights a little lower with trying new kinks since last years post did not go so well. I’ll be perfectly honest with you thinking about kinks to try when you’ve been cooped up in your flat away from the person you love is not an easy task. So after a lot of wracking my brain, here’s what I would like to try over the next 12 months.
- Shibari – OK this isn’t one to try, this is just something I want to be able to do for myself properly as I’ve never been very good at it. I love pretty rope work and I would love to be able to do it for myself. I’ve tried to teach myself a couple of times but I never actually keep up with it to remember how to do it properly. I really need to work on that.
- Deepthroating – yes this is another one that I would not be trying for the first time, are we noticing a trend already? I have a pretty strong gag reflex and I hate it so I want to kill it a bit to make blowjobs a lot easier. I just want to be better at blowjobs and not worry about accidentally puking on my partners cock!
- Dirty talking – I have a confession to make, unless I’m doing verbal humiliation I’m not actually that good at dirty talk and my partner really likes it so I want to be better at dirty talk for him. To be honest, when I get horny I usually struggle to string to words together which does not help. But again I want to work on it.
Well, so much for kinks to try, this is more stuff I want to be better at but I did say I was aiming a lot lower this year since who knows what’s coming next with the world. It could blow up tomorrow, an elder god could walk through a damn portal in my local high street and I wouldn’t be surprised. Lets face it if they did they’d just look around and say “Well, I can’t add anything to this party so I think I’ll see myself out.” And then it will begin to rain rotten cabbages.
Have you got any kinks you’re determined to try next year? Tell me all about it in the comments.