• Monthly Round Up

    Monthly Round Up April

    I’ve been far too quiet lately, even though I have a few cool post ideas and now a bunch of reviews which will be going up over the next few weeks as I endeavour to get back into properly blogging again. But my brain has been in and out of some dark and busy places and I needed a bit of a break. So that aside, what have I been loving this month? My Anniversary I celebrated three years with my partner this month. It was of course the day before everything opened and we weren’t able to do very much. It still beats last years when we were not…

  • rant

    On Crystal Toys

    I don’t tend to mix certain parts of my life but today I’m putting my witches hat on top of my sex blogger hat and we’re going to have a chat about sticking rocks up your hole. Sorry, I mean using crystal sex toys. Crystals are not body safe and suitable for sex toys, and yet they are growing in popularity more and more. Being natural does not make something better, healthier or more ethical. Mercury, belladonna and digitalis are natural but they are not going to do your health any good. I know that might seem like a bit of an extreme comparing mercury to a crystal but there…

  • Personal

    Fucking in the Mirror

    When my partner moved into his current place the wardrobe had a mirror on the door. The room is small and the only place he could put his bed meant it reflected the bed. I was thrilled. He was not, until he was. You see, I’m an exhibitionist, shocking I know, but he isn’t. I have been comfortable with being naked and on display for years but my partner has never been so comfortable with his body for one reason or another. So the thought of seeing himself naked and fucking in the mirror did not fill him with joy. It wasn’t easy to hide from that mirror, not impossible…

  • Memes

    Self Love

    No, not that kind of self love ya pervs! This one is all about learning to love myself, and that was not an easy thing. I’ve never quite been happy with my body and the people I dated have not helped this. Nor did growing up in a not so great home. And once I had learned from my mistake of living for other people things gradually began to change. My first step was when I started taking my clothes off for a living. Something within months I let my ex guilt me out of. (Oh how I wish I could have a do-over between 18 and 30 things would…

  • Personal

    Text Dirty to Me

    There’s not too many good things to come out of lockdown, but I tell you one thing that has. My partner has starting sending me dirty texts. And I’m so damn happy. A year ago my partner would tell you he can’t sext, that he’s not into it and just doesn’t get it. Which is a shame because we’ve been stuck in two different parts of London and unable to even see each other unless it was on a computer screen. We loved each other, we still love each other, we missed each other but our relationship was sexless. And since I am still very much in lust with him…

  • Monthly Round Up

    Monthly Round Up March

    I know this is a day late but I always write this post on the day and just did not have the energy yesterday. But hey, we’re still on for a third post this week! My Partner’s Birthday It’s his birthday right at the start of the month and having to celebrate yet another thing at a distance was tough. On the day I went over to his, walking as much of the journey as I could and picked up some sushi for his lunch on the way. I got to stand in the road while he stood on his doorstep and opened his presents. We just made the best…