• Review

    Tantaly Rico Review

    A little while ago Tantaly sent me this free toy for a review and decided to try something new. So thank you Tantaly for the opportunity. On the website the Rico by Tantaly is 27.17” in length,12.2” with a shoulder width of 18.9” hip width of 15.75” stem length of 6.3 and weighs 27.6 lbs and is made out of TPE (thermoplastic elastomer). I’m going to start off with the positives, the cock can be bent into shape to hit any spots you want it to hit. I’ve not had a toy that’s been able to do that before and I thought it was pretty neat. It arrived really fast,…

  • Sex

    Buying the Right Dildo for You

    I’ve brought a lot of dildos over the years, and in the last few years I’ve actually brought good quality ones that I will keep and use over and over again for years. Some of my collection I love and one or two not so much. So how do you buy the right dildo for you? Well I have some tips that might help. Firmness There’s a big range in firmness from super soft silicone to the hardness of glass and metal. While I do have toys that are firm that I really enjoy my first go to is always for the softer side. It’s why silicone will always reign…

  • Review

    Gems Little Pink Box Betty and Rose Bud Butt Plug Reviews

    Now we all know how much I love Gem and her toys, she has my address and is always welcome to turn up on my doorstep for a cup of tea. So when she had a sale over on Etsy I could not resist a new toy. I was also surprised with a second plug and a unicorn horn stress squishy. The horn is getting its own post soon so lets get into the butt plugs! As a pair they are visually lovely and of a high quality, just like everything else she has made. They’re made of high quality silicone and the Betty plug has glitter in that does…

  • BDSM,  Sex

    Masturbators Are Fun

    May is Masturbation Month and since this past year and a bit has had so many of us kept apart from our loved ones masturbation has been all we’ve had. They’ve put us more in touch with our bodies again and they’re good for both mental and physical health. I love my toys, every single one of them has played a part in getting me through, except one, that one was a disappointment. Lots of women own at least one, but with men it’s a different story. And I’ve been thinking about why. When it comes to women having a wank media seemed to make it all about lighting some…

  • rant

    The Relationship Scale

    I have recently unfollowed a few people who have no problem shaming healthy, happy relationships because they are monogamous. Relationship shaming is gross, don’t do it. People have their own reasons for being monogamous or not and there is toxicity in non-monogamy as well as monogamy. We seem to treat them as different sides of the same coin. But, maybe if we look at it more as a scale we can all try and get on a little better and stop being dicks. Very few things in life are binary right? So why are we not treating relationships like that? In the relationship I have with my partner we don’t…