• Personal

    Loving and Fearing Anal

    I really enjoy anal, the fact that I’ve had it about twice in two and a half years may not make it look like that though. The thing is, and anyone who engages in anal play will back me up on this, is that it can get unintentionally messy. Now I know you can use an anal douche but as I mentioned in my very first post they should be used very sparingly. I never really used to be that worried about it, certainly not in the past but then I was hit with this sudden fear. First of all, my partner has phimosis and that can make cleaning your…

  • BDSM

    5 Myths About Anal

    Inspired by a recent conversation I decided it was a good idea to kick a few lies about anal in the arse. Yes, I went there. So before I do any more shitty jokes (oh God I don’t think I can stop) lets crack on get into this. It hurts the first couple of times No, no it absolutely shouldn’t, as long as you are doing it right. It’s kind of like earlobe stretching, if it hurts you are doing it wrong and going too fast. And trust me, I have four stretched ear piercings and a very experienced sexual history. As long as you remember to take it slowly…

  • BDSM

    A Guide to Anal Sex

    Anal is one of my favourite things to do, I enjoy receiving as well as giving. But sadly many people don’t have a great first experience, which puts some off for life. So today I’m going to share some advice from my years of experience. Anal sex can be a lot of fun and a very intimate experience, particularly I feel when pegging your partner. It can give them a sensation that they may not have experienced before and is still seen as a very taboo thing for men. I say it’s time to break that taboo and start enjoying it. After all, that’s where the mans g-spot is. Lube…