I’ve got 14mm flesh tunnels in my ears. Or maybe 16. I do know the last jewellery I brought was too small. So who knows any more. But this isn’t about those holes. I’ve always wanted to be able to take a fist. But I’ve never been able to get past those last knuckles. The reality is that it probably isn’t going to happen as my hips seem to be a bit too narrow. And my partners got big hands. Like, really big. I love them. And I don’t seem to be able to bend in that weird way so many people can to fist themselves. Maybe if I took…