Tag Archives: BDSM advice

Build Your Own Path

There are very few things in BDSM that only have one way of doing them, and that’s down to health and safety. Yet there are people that will say there is only “one true way” and I’ve been practising BDSM … Continue reading

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Going With the Gut

Someone once told me “Always follow your first instinct, the second is the Devil trying to lead you astray” and she kind of had a point. While I am an atheist I don’t think it’s the Devil, not going with … Continue reading

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30 Days of Kink – Day 22

What Do You Think Is Important In Keeping A BDSM Relationship Healthy? How Does It Differ From A Vanilla Relationship? I think the most important thing is the same for a vanilla or BDSM based relationship, communication. They both need … Continue reading

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Small Penis Humiliation

Would you believe the inspiration for this post came from my mum? I’ve been feeling the block really bad of late and asked my mum what to write about. And she said small penises. But after a lot of small … Continue reading

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Leaving Marks

I love leaving marks on my partner, he wears them like a badge of honour. They’re a sign of really good sex. Marking me isn’t really a part of our dynamic, and it’s something I’ve been picky about in the … Continue reading

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How to Behave at a Munch

The new year is coming and maybe you’re thinking of getting involved with your local BDSM community as your new years resolution. Today I’m going to give you a few bits of advice before you go to your first ever … Continue reading

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Lifestyle Not Fuckstyle

OK, today I’m going to put my switch hat on again (it’s sparkly in case you’re wondering) and follow up my last post and talk about some realities of lifestyle BDSM. Maybe you’ve just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey … Continue reading

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D/s Over the Holidays

The holiday season is well and truly upon us here in the UK, with a big focus on family it can be hard to keep up the rules of a power exchange relationship, but it’s not impossible. So lets look … Continue reading

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BDSM and Planners

Could a planner help with your D/s relationship? I absolutely think so. That might seem like a strange claim but when you have a lot to remember it’s the easiest way I’ve found to keep on top of everything. My … Continue reading

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Exhibitionism

I’m a total exhibitionist, not really surprising given my blog, Twitter and being an ex fetish model. I love being the centre of attention and putting on a good show when I can. From my history in couples rooms or … Continue reading

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