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    Toy Free Play

    When it comes to BDSM it can sometimes feel like it’s about who has the best toys or their own play space. But toys are expensive, and if you’re new or on a tight budget, a reality for many of us, a packed toy box is not always a possibility. But there’s a lot you can still do without toys. Humiliation You don’t need anything but an imagination to enjoy this, but do remember to discuss limits and what is going too far beforehand as this can go wrong and can do a lot of emotional damage very easily. If you’re interested in public humiliation just remember, the strangers around…

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    Planning a Scene

    I’d like to start with a very rare apology, I’ve been too ill to do anything lately, including sit at my computer. With that said, let’s talk about planning a scene. Valentines Day is almost upon us and maybe you want to have some play time with your partner. If you don’t get as much time as you’d like for regular scenes then planning ahead can be great because you both know what you want to get out of it and you’ll actually get it. But there’s always a risk of over planning, so here’s my tips to get the most out of your play time. I do recommend planning…