There are very few things in BDSM that only have one way of doing them, and that’s down to health and safety. Yet there are people that will say there is only “one true way” and I’ve been practising BDSM for 15 years so I can promise you, that’s bullshit. I was thinking about this a lot recently, something from my private life inspired it so I thought it was time to share it here too. I’ve heard the whole “true sub/dom” thing since I started and it’s always been from people I wish I had never had the misfortune of meeting. When that term has been used it has…