Tag Archives: D/s relationships

Lifestyle Not Fuckstyle

OK, today I’m going to put my switch hat on again (it’s sparkly in case you’re wondering) and follow up my last post and talk about some realities of lifestyle BDSM. Maybe you’ve just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey … Continue reading

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Giving and Taking Control

I have an interesting relationship with control, I crave both giving and taking it, and once I dominate someone I can never go back to submitting to them again. Here’s how I make it all work in my life. As … Continue reading

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D/s Over the Holidays

The holiday season is well and truly upon us here in the UK, with a big focus on family it can be hard to keep up the rules of a power exchange relationship, but it’s not impossible. So lets look … Continue reading

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BDSM and Planners

Could a planner help with your D/s relationship? I absolutely think so. That might seem like a strange claim but when you have a lot to remember it’s the easiest way I’ve found to keep on top of everything. My … Continue reading

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