• Personal

    2021 Life Goals Revisited

    Last year I did my 2021 goals. So how did I do with them? Do NaNoWriMo – Starting with one I actually managed. It was tough and life just threw everything, lemons, kitchen sink, the lot and I still achieved it. And as I write this I still haven’t brought the toy I was going to get as a reward. When I do you know there is going to be a review. Build up the YouTube channel – I actually decided against this one after I found out YouTube could monetize my content but I could not. Fuck that, I wasn’t going to give them content to make money from…

  • Personal

    5 Things About Me

    For a blogger I’m pretty damn private, I talk a lot about kinks in a fairly general sense and I’ve talked here and there about my sex life so I thought maybe it was time to talk about me a bit and start being a little more open with my life. So here are five things about me you probably didn’t know. I started exploring my kinks and BDSM at 19, and I’m genuinely shocked when I look back at just how much my kinks and fetishes have changed. I’ve tried a lot over the years and some things stuck and others did not. Some I don’t get to enjoy…

  • Everything Else

    2021 Life Goals

    It’s safe to say not much has been achieved this year and the things I did were certainly not what I set out to. But I am thinking about the things I would like to do next year outside of the blog. And since we don’t know what next year is going to be like, I’m keeping it very simple. Do NaNoWriMo again. I think completing it this year was one of my highlights of 2020. And I’m already planning and worldbuilding for the next project. I really hope that I’ll be able to complete it again in 2021 since this is very different from what I worked on this…

  • Everything Else

    2021 Blog Goals

    Suffice to say my goals for last year were not even close to being hit, aside from maybe the building my social media but even then I wasn’t as good with that as I’d like to have been. But this year made human dumpster fires of basically all of us. But that was 2020 and next year will hopefully be better, with that in mind here’s what I want to achieve next year. Make the blog prettier. I’m still not happy with how this looks, the main page is really bland because I am just not technically minded enough to do a really good job. I’m starting to have to…

  • BDSM

    New Kinks to Try

    I think this year I’ll set my sights a little lower with trying new kinks since last years post did not go so well. I’ll be perfectly honest with you thinking about kinks to try when you’ve been cooped up in your flat away from the person you love is not an easy task. So after a lot of wracking my brain, here’s what I would like to try over the next 12 months. Shibari – OK this isn’t one to try, this is just something I want to be able to do for myself properly as I’ve never been very good at it. I love pretty rope work and…

  • Everything Else

    2019 Kinks to Try – Revisit

    Last year I wrote a list of things I wanted to try this year. I thought I would go back and see how that went, you know in that 8 minutes this year we were allowed to do things like hug? This may be my most pointless post ever. But we can only see. Erotic hypnosis – OK, this is a good place to start as I did manage to get somewhere with this. Sort of. For our anniversary my partner made me an erotic hypnosis file. But having aphantasia I think hypnosis will fall under the same category as fisting. My body just isn’t built for it. I don’t…

  • Everything Else

    Top 5 2020 Posts

    Last year I set December aside for almost exclusively lists and I thought I would do the same again this year. So lets get this month started off with my favourite posts of the year. Somewhere To Rest My Feet – This is the most recent entry and it was a Kink of the Week post on forniphilia, something I’ve not actually done in a very long time. Actually there’s a lot of things I’ve not done in a long time but I’ve not done this in a really really long time. I even got to write about my favourite podcast and one of my favourite shows of the year…