• BDSM

    Flogging For Inner Peace

    Some of us really struggle to switch our brains off. I’m certainly one of those people, my attempts at meditation have not been too successful, but there is one thing that actually works for me. A good flogging. This may sound crazy, but it’s BDSM when doesn’t it sound just a little bit crazy? But it’s only when I’ve got my partner behind me and flogging me I can shut out all outside influence and exist purely in the moment. I find that it works better than a trance induction, something designed to switch my brain off, at getting my conscious mind to clock out and my subconscious mind to…

  • Memes

    Leaving Marks

    I love leaving marks on my partner, he wears them like a badge of honour. They’re a sign of really good sex. Marking me isn’t really a part of our dynamic, and it’s something I’ve been picky about in the past. I wouldn’t say marks are a fetish of mine, but I love the acts that result in them. I don’t talk about my relationship all that often but I have said before that abrasion play is one of our favourite things and it’s obviously one that does leave marks. Albeit temporary. Dragging my nails into my partners skin as I orgasm is always a part of our fucking, it’s…