• BDSM,  Sex

    Masturbators Are Fun

    May is Masturbation Month and since this past year and a bit has had so many of us kept apart from our loved ones masturbation has been all we’ve had. They’ve put us more in touch with our bodies again and they’re good for both mental and physical health. I love my toys, every single one of them has played a part in getting me through, except one, that one was a disappointment. Lots of women own at least one, but with men it’s a different story. And I’ve been thinking about why. When it comes to women having a wank media seemed to make it all about lighting some…

  • Everything Else

    I Started Keeping A Wanking Diary

    Well, hello 2021, please for the love of every god and goddess be better than 2020. So I’ve started keeping a tracker of my wanking habits, because of course I have. What else am I going to do to keep me sane? But there’s more to it than just giving myself something a little more to do. I know some people keep a tracker of their sex lives but sex is a bit off the table at the moment with the state of the world and all that (I’m writing this in about mid December 2020) so wanking it is. And it kind of makes sense to do this anyway…

  • Everything Else

    Trying to Scratch an Itch While Ignoring Fifty Others

    It’s been a rough few weeks, which is why my posting is a little all over the place of late. I’ve been trying so hard to wank so I could review my gorgeous new ice cream dildo but I just can’t concentrate. It’s been tough to keep my sex drive up while I am not allowed to actually have sex (is social distancing ever going to end?) and it’s even tougher when you’re itchy all over. So how do you keep the spark up with yourself? I feel like I should have some magical answer to this, after all, isn’t that why you’re reading this? I guess you could be…

  • Personal

    I Love to Watch

    I’ve never said it to anyone else, but I love watching my partner wanking. It’s never done anything for me before and I have no interest in watching guys wank in porn. It’s just my partner, laying back and touching himself. And I think actually enjoying it has made our sex better. The thing is, no one knows how to pleasure my partner better than him. He knows what gets him off because he’s had the practice, knows what’s going on in his head and how what is being done actually feels. With his phimosis I’ve had to re learn everything I know because he really does need to be…

  • Everything Else

    Ethical Wanking

    I feel like a fraud, the last orgasm I had was just disappointing. That was last week and I’ve not bothered since. And yet here I am about to talk about wanking. But I have had lots of great wanks. Just not recently. But wanking and orgasms are good for you, they’re good for your mental health and physical too. And we really need to be looking after both as best as we can these days. So sit back, relax and lets talk about having the best and most ethical wank of your life. First, lets talk lube. It’s not just for anal, and it’s not just for use with…

  • BDSM

    Porn vs. Fantasy

    It used to be if I was horny I watched porn and had a wank. But lately I’ve just been letting my mind wonder and enjoying fantasies instead. And I think my orgasms have been all the better for it. I’m no longer either trying to find porn to buy that suits my kinky needs or trailing through the verified accounts of sites like Porn Hub. Don’t get me wrong, I still love porn, and you should absolutely be paying for it because those performers deserve your money. And I will be selling it myself as of 2020. But have we become too reliant on it to get our rocks…