• BDSM,  Sex

    Masturbators Are Fun

    May is Masturbation Month and since this past year and a bit has had so many of us kept apart from our loved ones masturbation has been all we’ve had. They’ve put us more in touch with our bodies again and they’re good for both mental and physical health. I love my toys, every single one of them has played a part in getting me through, except one, that one was a disappointment. Lots of women own at least one, but with men it’s a different story. And I’ve been thinking about why. When it comes to women having a wank media seemed to make it all about lighting some…

  • Everything Else

    Christmas Gift Ideas

    I’d usually save this as the first post of December, but given how up the spout the world and therefore the postal service is this year I probably should have done this back in July. But here we are, the end of the year is almost in sight but first, Christmas. Something fun to look forward to! And if you’re feeling a little stumped for a kinky gift idea maybe I can help you out with a little inspiration. Ice Cream Dildo – Gem’s Little Pink Box You must have known this was going to be on the list, I have one myself that I have raved about. If you…

  • Review

    Guest Post – OffBeat Review

    My partner is back for a guest review, this time it’s the OffBeat Godemiche in UV red. Before starting this review I should point out that I have phimosis; a minor condition in which the foreskin is too tight to be pulled back over the head of the penis. Over my life it has made wanking and sex in general somewhat awkward as the pulling of my foreskin can result in a stinging pain. This also means that I have a restricted sense of pleasure during all forms of sex.   I have just tried wanking with the ‘Off-Beat’ silicone masturbator. I used the 2 inch version, and once aroused, I…