Tag Archives: Personal

If Not You

“I just don’t think I’m that kinky.” I used to have two deal breakers, non-monogamy and non-kinky. I thought they were the two things I absolutely had to have in my relationship. If I had heard that sentence from anyone … Continue reading

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I Love to Watch

I’ve never said it to anyone else, but I love watching my partner wanking. It’s never done anything for me before and I have no interest in watching guys wank in porn. It’s just my partner, laying back and touching … Continue reading

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My Top 3 Orgasms

I love orgasms, so today I thought I would talk about the best three orgasms I’ve ever had. My partner was there for two of them. He’s very proud of this. To be fair, I would be too. So here’s … Continue reading

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Wrap Your Legs Around Me

I love legs, it’s one of my favourite body parts on my partners body. It’s also my favourite part of a few rugby players. Especially when the Welsh number 10 is converting a try or going for a penalty. Sorry, … Continue reading

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A Socially Distanced Date

Here in the UK the lock down has lifted a little, you can now meet up with someone in a public place as long as you keep your distance. So we had our first ever socially distanced date. Which I … Continue reading

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A Tale Of My Partner

My partner says I should talk about him, so here is a little tale about him, how much more body confidant he has become and how much I love him. For Valentines Day last year I brought him a Clone … Continue reading

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Love in the Time of Corona

Today is my second anniversary, I am over in my part of London and he is in his. What is usually only an hour or so long journey feels like it could be hundreds of miles away in this moment. … Continue reading

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30 Days of Kink – Day 19

Any Unexpected Ways That Kink Has Improved Your Life? If So What Are They? Kink has given me so much confidence it is incredible. It gave me back a voice that I lost from years of abuse of varying forms. … Continue reading

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My Sterilisation Story

The plan was to talk about Eroticon today, but the organisers made the absolutely right call to cancel it. So I’ve decided to talk about my sterilisation instead. It’s about my genitals so it absolutely counts. I had my procedure … Continue reading

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PTSD and Sex

I debated posting about this for a while, but I figure I should explain why my posting can be a little sparse sometimes and my Twitter can be so quiet. My brain really just isn’t up to it sometimes, and … Continue reading

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