We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love Tom Robbins How do you create the perfect love? What even is the perfect love? I don’t think I know. Is perfect love the support we give each other? is it going to all of your stand up gigs? Is it you rubbing my feet because they always seem to feel achy? Is it holding you when you’re stressed? Is it you waking me up from nightmares and calming me down again? Or maybe it’s making each other laugh so hard there are tears rolling down our cheeks and our sides hurting. I don’t know, maybe…