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If Not You

“I just don’t think I’m that kinky.” I used to have two deal breakers, non-monogamy and non-kinky. I thought they were the two things I absolutely had to have in my relationship. If I had heard that sentence from anyone … Continue reading

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Phimosis From My Perspective

Following on from Fridays post from my partner about living with phimosis, we’re starting off the week with a post about my perspective. I already knew about phimosis, I’d known two people who had it and were both treated for … Continue reading

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A Socially Distanced Date

Here in the UK the lock down has lifted a little, you can now meet up with someone in a public place as long as you keep your distance. So we had our first ever socially distanced date. Which I … Continue reading

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30 Days of Kink – Day 22

What Do You Think Is Important In Keeping A BDSM Relationship Healthy? How Does It Differ From A Vanilla Relationship? I think the most important thing is the same for a vanilla or BDSM based relationship, communication. They both need … Continue reading

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Staying Sane During Corona

I know Friday is usually my review day but with everything going on I haven’t actually written one yet. I’ve been busy foraging for food and wondering when I’m going to be able to see my partner again after tonight. … Continue reading

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I’m monogamous and That’s OK

It’s a bit of a strange thing to be into BDSM and monogamous, I’m very much in the minority and I know it. It’s not that I haven’t had a sort of go with a more open kind of relationship … Continue reading

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Introducing BDSM into a Relationship

Whether you are introducing it into a relationship entirely or just a new kink you want to explore it can feel a little intimidating to have the conversation. But what’s the harm in talking about it? There’s very little to … Continue reading

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