I’ve got this candle on my bedside table, I only used to light it as part of setting the mood when my partner was over. I’ve lit it today for the first time since he was last over. Instead of setting the mood for sex, today it is a mood to write about, well, setting the mood. It’s important to set the mood, be it sex, BDSM or both. It’s not just about dressing up, which is great and I love it. (I’ve got a whole section of my wardrobe dedicated to it.) But it’s the room too. It’s so much nicer to fuck or play in a nice space…