• Everything Else

    A Dildo Buying Guide

    I love sex toys, I love them so damn much. But learning how to buy a good sex toy has taken time and I’ve certainly made some (costly) mistakes. So today I’m going to give you some tips to help you buy a sex toy you’ll love. Good Sex Toys Aren’t Cheap and Cheap Sex Toys Aren’t Good Cheap toys tend to be made of cheap materials (I do have a vegan whip I brought for under £15 from Sinful Floggers so this rules comes with a couple of exceptions but I’m talking about dildos today) and cheap materials, like the ones jelly dildos are made from are not going…

  • Sex

    Setting the Scene

    I’ve got this candle on my bedside table, I only used to light it as part of setting the mood when my partner was over. I’ve lit it today for the first time since he was last over. Instead of setting the mood for sex, today it is a mood to write about, well, setting the mood. It’s important to set the mood, be it sex, BDSM or both. It’s not just about dressing up, which is great and I love it. (I’ve got a whole section of my wardrobe dedicated to it.) But it’s the room too. It’s so much nicer to fuck or play in a nice space…

  • BDSM

    5 Myths About Anal

    Inspired by a recent conversation I decided it was a good idea to kick a few lies about anal in the arse. Yes, I went there. So before I do any more shitty jokes (oh God I don’t think I can stop) lets crack on get into this. It hurts the first couple of times No, no it absolutely shouldn’t, as long as you are doing it right. It’s kind of like earlobe stretching, if it hurts you are doing it wrong and going too fast. And trust me, I have four stretched ear piercings and a very experienced sexual history. As long as you remember to take it slowly…

  • BDSM

    Introducing BDSM into a Relationship

    Whether you are introducing it into a relationship entirely or just a new kink you want to explore it can feel a little intimidating to have the conversation. But what’s the harm in talking about it? There’s very little to lose and so much to gain. And we’ve all had to do it at some point, so here are a few tips to help make that conversation a little easier. Don’t rush the talk, it will take as long as it takes and should be relaxed. If it isn’t it can feel a little pressuring or intimidating which isn’t going to get you anywhere. Talk over a coffee or something…

  • BDSM

    A Guide to Anal Sex

    Anal is one of my favourite things to do, I enjoy receiving as well as giving. But sadly many people don’t have a great first experience, which puts some off for life. So today I’m going to share some advice from my years of experience. Anal sex can be a lot of fun and a very intimate experience, particularly I feel when pegging your partner. It can give them a sensation that they may not have experienced before and is still seen as a very taboo thing for men. I say it’s time to break that taboo and start enjoying it. After all, that’s where the mans g-spot is. Lube…