• Personal

    Sleepy Saturday Shagging

    On Friday night I shaved off Shadows hair, on Saturday morning he woke me up wanking. I was really tired and just wanted to sleep some more. I couldn’t get back to sleep so we had some very relaxed morning sex. After he ate me out we started fucking. It was relaxed and sleepy. We hadn’t been fucking for long when he made a noise. In any other guy I’d have assumed he had come. But Shadow has phimosis and hasn’t come from sex. Ever. I told him it sounded like he had come and he had. I’d been telling him for years to get the snip, his hair wasn’t…

  • Personal

    Fucking Injured

    I was a bit quiet last week when it came to social media and the blog, because I could barely dress myself. I’ve hurt my neck and shoulder (again) and if I couldn’t type you know I couldn’t fuck. But that wasn’t going to stop me finding a way to at least get Shadow off. But what can you do when you can’t move your arm or head? Well, I laid back and let him straddle my chest with my arms in a comfortable position with my head supported my pillows. I could just reach him with my tongue and he was just able to gently fuck my mouth. It’s…

  • Personal,  Sex

    Learning to Fuck Better

    I’ve been with my partner for well over three years now and we’ve recently been in a bit of a sexual rut of late. I’ve been feeling more and more pressure to orgasm as with my partners phimosis he can struggle and we have both felt things have gotten a little samey. But after a good talk about it we had one of the best fucks I think we’ve ever had. Shadow was very understanding about my feeling a pressure to perform and my worry about hurting his feelings if I didn’t orgasm and we both agreed that we need to use my huge collection of kinky gear (although he…

  • Personal

    Fucking in the Mirror

    When my partner moved into his current place the wardrobe had a mirror on the door. The room is small and the only place he could put his bed meant it reflected the bed. I was thrilled. He was not, until he was. You see, I’m an exhibitionist, shocking I know, but he isn’t. I have been comfortable with being naked and on display for years but my partner has never been so comfortable with his body for one reason or another. So the thought of seeing himself naked and fucking in the mirror did not fill him with joy. It wasn’t easy to hide from that mirror, not impossible…

  • Sex

    All Day Sessions

    Well hello there! I’m back from a very rough and uninspired mental health time but that seems to be over and done with I’ll be coming back and doing my best to keep up with posts. Although I may well stop being so rigid with my posting schedule. So who knows what will happen next. Isn’t it exciting? That said, shall we have a proper blog post? Last night I was talking with my partner last night about a show he has been watching. I, Claudius of all things and in the episode someone’s wife has a competition with a sex worker for who could bed the most lovers in…

  • Personal

    My Top 3 Orgasms

    I love orgasms, so today I thought I would talk about the best three orgasms I’ve ever had. My partner was there for two of them. He’s very proud of this. To be fair, I would be too. So here’s a countdown of my best ever orgasms. 3. That time I nearly broke my fingers. Yes I once came so hard I nearly broke my own fingers. I wish I could remember what I was thinking about at the time (I do remember this being a late night, porn free wank, and was just rubbing my clit. When I came I came so hard my body just clamped down on…

  • Sex

    Setting the Scene

    I’ve got this candle on my bedside table, I only used to light it as part of setting the mood when my partner was over. I’ve lit it today for the first time since he was last over. Instead of setting the mood for sex, today it is a mood to write about, well, setting the mood. It’s important to set the mood, be it sex, BDSM or both. It’s not just about dressing up, which is great and I love it. (I’ve got a whole section of my wardrobe dedicated to it.) But it’s the room too. It’s so much nicer to fuck or play in a nice space…

  • Sex

    Head in the Game

    I don’t have my head in the writing game today. My Godemiche Ambit is getting delivered today and honestly I’m just crazy excited about it. And couriers are infamously bad at getting stuff delivered here so distracted barely scratches the surface. But I also struggle to get my head in the blowjob game. Not because I don’t enjoy it, I actually do. The problem is I have a gag reflex so strong I’m quite frankly amazed I can brush my damn teeth. I’ve been sucking dick for a long time so you would think I’d gotten used to it but I’m 33 at the time of writing this and it’s…

  • Phimosis

    Phimosis From My Perspective

    Following on from Fridays post from my partner about living with phimosis, we’re starting off the week with a post about my perspective. I already knew about phimosis, I’d known two people who had it and were both treated for it with circumcision later in life, however I had never had a partner with it, at least not untreated. And it turns out, it can be incredibly hard to get a doctor to take it seriously enough to actually get that treatment. It’s hard knowing your partner is hurting and there is nothing you can do about it, and phimosis causes both kinds of pain, as he talked about in…

  • Personal

    Our Orgasm Gap

    It’s great that we are finally addressing the orgasm gap, that there are more studies being done and dialogue is finally opening up about it. I thought today I would talk about the orgasm gap in my relationship. One of us cannot orgasm from penetrative sex, and that person is my partner. He has phimosis (tight foreskin) and because of it he loses some feeling in his penis making orgasm from sex basically impossible. It has gotten better over the past two years and it isn’t so tight he has had to have surgery. It does however still affect our sex life to a point, and that point is that…