• BDSM

    Problematic Kinks

    There are a fair few kinks that are popular yet problematic. One I have always felt kind of uncomfortable about it sissyfication. As a cis woman that owns her femininity and is proud of it I don’t see what’s so humiliating about being a woman. And I did wonder if it was transphobic, and there are trans people who think it is. A trans woman is transitioning her body to match the person she is inside, they are embracing their femininity to see cis men treating being turned into and treated as a woman as a part of humiliation kink could only be seen as hurtful. I don’t want this…

  • Everything Else

    High End Fuckery

    Just a quick warning, there will be mentions of transphobia in this post. Well, hasn’t this been an eventful week in the blogging community? I was going to write this yesterday but I needed just that little bit more time between recent events and actually writing about them. And considering that more came out since the initial fallout I’m glad I gave it an extra day. For those that aren’t in the loop there has been some serious transphobia in the blogging community, it’s just a small handful of people and they have been called out on this post by Mx Nillian which goes into lots of detail but I…