• Everything Else

    I Started Keeping A Wanking Diary

    Well, hello 2021, please for the love of every god and goddess be better than 2020. So I’ve started keeping a tracker of my wanking habits, because of course I have. What else am I going to do to keep me sane? But there’s more to it than just giving myself something a little more to do. I know some people keep a tracker of their sex lives but sex is a bit off the table at the moment with the state of the world and all that (I’m writing this in about mid December 2020) so wanking it is. And it kind of makes sense to do this anyway…

  • Personal

    I Love to Watch

    I’ve never said it to anyone else, but I love watching my partner wanking. It’s never done anything for me before and I have no interest in watching guys wank in porn. It’s just my partner, laying back and touching himself. And I think actually enjoying it has made our sex better. The thing is, no one knows how to pleasure my partner better than him. He knows what gets him off because he’s had the practice, knows what’s going on in his head and how what is being done actually feels. With his phimosis I’ve had to re learn everything I know because he really does need to be…

  • Everything Else

    Ethical Wanking

    I feel like a fraud, the last orgasm I had was just disappointing. That was last week and I’ve not bothered since. And yet here I am about to talk about wanking. But I have had lots of great wanks. Just not recently. But wanking and orgasms are good for you, they’re good for your mental health and physical too. And we really need to be looking after both as best as we can these days. So sit back, relax and lets talk about having the best and most ethical wank of your life. First, lets talk lube. It’s not just for anal, and it’s not just for use with…

  • Everything Else,  Personal

    Staying Sane During Corona

    I know Friday is usually my review day but with everything going on I haven’t actually written one yet. I’ve been busy foraging for food and wondering when I’m going to be able to see my partner again after tonight. As someone who has spent a lot of her life locked indoors looking for an excuse not to go out I thought I’d share some advice on how to not end up clawing the walls. Skype is your friend. If like me you don’t live with your partner video calls are a big thing, if you’ve been in a long distance relationship you’ll know how important things like this are.…