• Monthly Round Up

    Monthly Round Up June

    This was meant to be a month that things happened and then none of them have. But it’s not been such a bad time. I’ve had fun, nowhere near as much as I like but fun has been had somewhere. So what have the highlights been? Bags: Inside and Out The museums are open again and I’ve already been back to the V&A and renewed my membership, I was able to get tickets for Bags: Inside and Out. (The Alice exhibition wasn’t open yet, but I do have tickets for it.) It’s in the small exhibition space but they managed to fit loads of really interesting stuff in there. If…

  • BDSM,  Personal

    Wax Play and Creative Inspiration

    The last time I saw my partner he suggested we do wax play, we knew it would be the last chance we got to play for a while so we did. I dripped a blue Trussed UK candle over his back (I haven’t asked permission to post the photo I took of so it’s not getting posted) while he listened to Penguin Cafe Orchestra, if you haven’t heard of them they are pretty great background music for wax play. I particularly like The Sound of Someone You Love Going Away and it Doesn’t Matter. He then dripped a purple Trussed UK candle down my back (it was a lot splashier…

  • BDSM

    Safe Wax Play

    Wax play is so much fun, but it’s not as simple as just grabbing a candle and dripping the wax. You can get some really nasty burns that way, so I thought today I would share my advice on this fun little kink. Get proper wax play candles. Different types of candles burn at different temperatures and because of this it’s best to just buy proper wax play candles, and from somewhere reputable, not just those cheap ones on eBay. Who knows what they’re made of. You could give someone a really nasty burn if you aren’t careful. Also supporting a reputable sex positive company makes you sexier. A fact…